Grass is always greener on the other side of fence. Sad but true. There are two ways out. 1: Stare at the grass at your end. 2: Get on the other side of the fence.
By staring at the grass at your end, you are living in your own small world. Greener grass on the other end of the fence awaits you. But being too lazy to get on the other side sounds like a good excuse. Use it if you are going to stay there and star at the grass at your end.
If you decide to actually get on the other side of the fence, you are making a terrible mistake. You have given up a price-less opportunity to sit lazily on your bottom on the side of fence you were born on. Having a chance to be lazy is priceless indeed. But you have decided to make it to the other side so lets focus on that.
You have to get on the other side of fence. Don't expect to find a huge hole in the fence where you can just squeeze through and get on the other side. May be there is a hole but you are too fat to squeeze through. Don't try to jump over it. Its quite tall and you will land on the other end with broken bones. Or some nasty pain at least. You can dig under the fence and get to the other side. I personally wont do that. That would make me feel like a dog. It may make you feel like a dog too. Only if you are male. I wont mention the female version of the story over here. It may be offensive or they can simply call the geek next door to help her out. She knows how to make him work and think. Poor guy!
The point is that there is no easy way to get on the other side of fence. You either have to to be lucky (or really thin) to find a hole just to squeeze through it. Or you will end up with broken bones or you feel like a dog. But you get there if you want to be there bad enough. On reaching the 'other' side, you take a moment to regain to physical strength and self-respect. Look proudly to the grass on your end and Lo! and behold! grass is not greener on this side of the fence. Its on the other side again!
Moral: Grass is equally green at both the sides.
But if you had chosen to stay at your end in the beginning, grass at the other end would have seemed greener and wouldn't have let you sleep at night (mosquitos are not the only reason you don't sleep at night). Explore your world, explore the possibilities and you will find your self.
Moral-2: Its not about being on this or that side of the fence, its about having explored both the sides. Its about not having a regret of not being on the other side.
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Moral 3: Its also about making your choices. Do u want to stay on this side or wanna go to the other, or do u want to stand on the fence and balance there...
Choice4: Sometimes you don't have choice.You just stare at the whole grass field.
~ Take a choice & stick to.It Will rain someday to make your part greener.
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